12 Reasons Why This Pisces Girl Loves Her Aries Man
Posted by The Pisces Girl on Monday Jan 31, 2011 in To Be A PiscesFor those who are interested, Schwabs just so happens to be an Aries. The Ram.
Astrologically speaking, we are supposed to be one of most romantic couplings in the zodiac-a real prince meets princess story. Though, we also couldn’t be more opposite. We literally fall on opposite ends of the zodiac scale. He is the very first sign, and Pisces is the very last. I’ve read up a lot on our pairing and some say its a match made in heaven, while others say we are too different to last.
In the end, I say only WE decide how our love story goes.
I can vouch that being married to an Aries man is not always easy. But he could say the same goes for a Pisces girl. While I cannot deny that we are very different people, the payoff to being married to my Aries man far outweigh our differences. Everyday, he shows me the kind of love fairy tales are made of. He really is my prince charming.
So, here are just a few more reasons why I love my Aries Man.
1. He Has a Wicked Sense of Humor
It’s a little bit sarcastic mixed with quick wit and silliness. I can’t exactly explain it, but it puts me ease almost instantly.
2. He’s a Manly Man
He goes after what he wants with boldness, he’s chivalrous, he protects and provides, he takes out the trash, he watches football and drinks beer with his buddies…He’s a guy’s guy in every sense of the phrase and has no shame in it. It’s the perfect compliment to my girlie-ness. I wouldn’t want it any other way.
3. He Lets Me Be Me
It’s no secret that on any given day, I can be one of a million different things depending on my mood. No matter who I am, what my mood is, or what quirk I show him that day, he always accepts me for the chameleon that I am.
4. He’s Romantic
Flowers, gifts and cards “just because”; breakfast in bed; romantic weekend get-a-ways; love letters; sweet nothings and all kinds of thoughtful gestures (like warming up my bath towel in the dyer while I’m in the shower-how cute is that?!)
When it comes to romance, my Aries man goes above and beyond. He makes me feel like a real-life princess.
5. He’s a Leader
He has a way of wording things juuusst right in order to get the results he wants. It’s brilliant.
I can’t really be mad at him, it’s just the way he is. Most times though, he gets results by teaching people to how play up to their strengths, rather than their weaknesses. It’s admirable…and it puts stars in my eyes.
6. He Has an Adventurous Spirit
He’s spontaneous and always willing to try something new. I’m not as spontaneous, but I like going along for the ride because we’re sure to have a fun time.
7. What You See is What You Get
Whether he’s happy, or sad, or anything in between, my Aries man has no problems letting me know exactly where he stands. He is who he is-he doesn’t hide it and I can appreciate that very much.
In a world where I’m constantly getting burned for taking people for face value, it’s comforting to know I can count on him to show me his true self.
8. He’s Easy on the Eyes
Of course I’m going to say he’s attractive, I married him didn’t I? Truth be told, from the minute I met him, I thought he was very cute. He has a bright, happy smile and kind eyes…there are LOTS of other things I’m physically attracted to-lets just leave it at that.
9. He’s Supportive
Real estate, painting, writing, blogging…no matter what I focus my efforts in, he believes in my talents and supports them all.
Also, I like that he’s proud of me. He enjoys showing my talents off, which is good, because I’m not always so keen on putting myself out there.
10. He’s Young at Heart
Though he is already 30 and I’m not far behind, we still sometimes feel like big kids running around the candy store that is our life.
He has a silly and youthful spirit that brings out the same in me. He has the energy of a little boy, running at full throttle. Its not always easy to keep up, but how I love being there to watch him bounce around.
11. He’s Tenacious-
When I first met my Aries man, I was just getting out of a long-term relationship and not ready to jump into anything too serious. But that didn’t dissuade him any from pursuing me head on. How could I refuse such charm??
It is with that same tenacity that he tackles ALL his aspirations-whether it be work, a project at home or his personal relationships.
12. He’s Fiercely Loyal-
He’s had the same group of best friends since he was three and been a devout Texas A&M Aggies fan from the time he could watch sports (whether they win or lose.)
It is with this same sense of loyalty that he approaches all the important relationships in his life. From his friends, to his family, to his marriage with me, he demonstrates a devotion that makes my heart melt and keeps me wanting to do the same for him.
While I can’t speak for every Aries (astrology or not, we’re all unique souls) I can say that my Aries man is a good match for my sassy, Pisces girl personality. As our connection grows stronger, we’ve been able to get on the same wavelength by accepting and embracing the fact we are indeed different. But sometimes, it’s those very opposites that keeps our relationship so exciting. We compliment each other’s strengths and weaknesses so that together, we become more complete versions of ourselves. I couldn’t ask for more than that from a partner-in-crime.
I hope this sheds a little insight into the dynamics of my Aries-Pisces relationship, please take from it what you need. Wishing you all the best, my friends, may you have a joyful love story that’s all your own.
Questions? Comments? What’s been your experience? I’d love to hear from you!
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February 2nd, 2011 at 6:15 am
Thanks for this insight…I had a nice talk with my pisces lady and wow she’s moving here which is both our hometown…blew me out the water (no pun intended…well yeah pun intended lol) I feel like I am the same for her as your husband is for you. When she was confused about which path to take in her career…I laid out her options via email and she chose and just so happen she chose to be where I am…how blessed am I!!!! We are planning to go to Cali (where she was born and lived until age
and Cali is my getaway so where getting away together…I am so happy!
February 2nd, 2011 at 9:15 am
That’s great news, I’m glad to hear that “the talk” went well! Lol, good one. Wow, a move, that IS a big deal.
Sounds like the start of smooth sailing (pun also intended
) I hope for continued blessings in your relationship and enjoy your visit to Cali, sounds like fun!
February 16th, 2011 at 2:51 pm
I got a HUGE question, btw congrat and continue the fairy tale love with your Aries man!
I was married to an Libra man, we are getting divorce. Before him I am attracted to a Gemini Man. Opposites of the spectrum, I get along with the Gemini man better than my ex Libra husband. I dropped the GM long ago because I felt he would break my heart thus leading me to marriage and a child with LM. After my break up and getting back in touch with GM, he told me that he actual had feelings (he’s shy) felt let down because I chose to get married. Hey I had to move on I can’t wait forever! But what I’m getting at is he’s still interested and I’m visiting him soon.He lives in Cali, i’m in East Texas. We are totally DIFFERENT! He’s from Germany, older and accomplished. I, from the styx, 2 kids, going to be divorced, half way through my college that can it work out between us? Or just be good friends?
February 16th, 2011 at 3:01 pm
Oh yeah he’s been knowing me since I was 23 years old( met on the internet) and I visited him in 2006 & 2009. My Big mama told me long ago before I married my LM that I should have moved the GM.(I found that crazy coming from my Big Mama!) I don’t know if he’s cautious or commitment issues but he shared personal things with me. Wow, now I’m terrified to go out there next month!
February 22nd, 2011 at 9:34 am
Thank you very much for your kind words! Now, to answer your question. Well, that’s a pretty heavy question for anyone to really know the answer to. Can it work out between you two-despite all your differences? Yes.
I think more importantly, and what you will have to figure out, is do you both WANT it to work out? Is the connection and love strong enough to make it worth compromising for the differences? And there will be compromises, I assure you.
Speaking as someone who is kind of in the same boat (attracted to my total opposite) the differences keep the relationship fun but at times, they are also what piss us off about each other. When that happens, we both have to bring ourselves back to our happy place. The place that reminds us our kind of love is worth fighting for. Also, it helps very much that we are both aware of-and we try to be accommodating to-our differences. For the most part, we both work to maintain smooth sailing…I hope you can (eventually) relate this to your situation.
Please don’t be too nervous about your visit with your Gemini man (I know, it’s hard not to!) Get excited and plan to enjoy your time with him. I’m sure he’s just as full of butterflies as you are. There is nothing wrong with being cautious, but also keep an open mind and open heart. Have fun and use this “second chance” to figure out-is he worth it?
Sending you my best and wishing many blessings. I hope to hear how the trip goes!
June 5th, 2011 at 9:24 am
I’ve been reading trough this and have to accept that I really like the Aries or even fall but things just turned out not so positive. I had been knowing him and been with him for a while about 8 months, but then later he told me between us it’s not gonna work because difficult process, distance problem. But then later I found him back to be with his ex
Still miss him but nothing I can do just accept it. He said I will be important for him but just a saying. He ignores me now even I didn’t do anything bad just texting a hi but never get any reply.
June 10th, 2011 at 9:02 am
Hi Goldfish,
I am very sorry to hear this. I can only imagine what you must be feeling. But if he is back with his ex and ignoring you, then by all means, YES. It’s time to move on down the line and find someone who has enough insight to see you’re WORTH the effort…I have no doubt in my mind that you are. Sending you a great big hug and praying this finds you well.
June 11th, 2011 at 6:46 am
Hi, Pisces Girl.
Thank you, that means a lot to me. And yes there’s nothing I can do so just move on. Actually I’m OK for dreaming
not sad at the moment. Keep myself busy working and do stuffs I like. But hey! I have a problem, seem I’m interested in so so many things at the same time and find it’s difficult to choose. Just wanted to improve myself, nobody perfect but still want to be 
Do you mind giving me any suggestions to make my feet step on the earth not floating or flying away? I’m not sure if it’s a good idea to ask for suggestions in this page
But hey! I’m really into Mr Aries.
June 11th, 2011 at 8:19 am
Hi Goldfish,
So glad to hear you are feeling good, I’m loving your attitude.
And please feel to ask for suggestions on any page you’d like-or you can also be in touch via the ‘contact’ page on the right. I’m open to communicating however you’d like to reach me.
I often find that I have the same problem (so many interests coupled with not enough time, a short attention span and sometimes overly dreamy persona.) What has always help keep me grounded is setting myself written goals. First I set the huge lofty one (you know the kind) and then break it down into smaller, more achievable goals that I know will help me reach the bigger one. This helps give me focus and keeps me from drifting away from the path once I’ve set it.
For example, take this website- before anything was ever started, the ultimate goal has always been to develop a strong and steady readership and (eventually) become one of the top Pisces related sites online….but that doesn’t happen overnight. So to reach that very high in the sky goal, I first had to break it down (first goal was to set up an attractive user-friendly site. Second was to start building content. Third was connecting with readers…..etc. etc. etc.) If I keep at it, I know eventually I WILL reach my goal.
But I follow the same process for most things I set out to do-whether it’s with my art, photography, writing, fashion or tasks at work. Though, admittedly, once I’ve started, sometimes I find that certain hobbies interest me more than others-and naturally fall away to provide me with enough energy for the ones that I REALLY like.
I know this is long, but one more thing. I keep a daily calender/planner that I write EVERYTHING down in. This is important because it helps hold me accountable and keep me on task. It fits in my purse, I carry it everywhere, and use crazy colored ink so that I’ll be inspired to write in it. Silly, I know. But true.
Like you said, no one is perfect. I still sometimes drift, but these small things help me tremendously in bringing me back to earth and keeping me there (for the most part) so I can actually turn the dream into something real.
Hope these little tid bits help!
June 14th, 2011 at 7:08 am
Hi, Pisces Girl.
Thank you very much for your warm and very kind suggestion. I will copy hehe
June 14th, 2011 at 7:21 am
Oh, about using colored ink, well it’s not silly nor crazy because I also do that haha
It’s something about to look nice, colorful and pretty, more interesting
June 14th, 2011 at 11:44 am
Goldfish,
Yes, Exactly! Who wants to see boring blue and black when you can see the whole rainbow? Hee.hee. Thanks my friend.